Life in the New Year

Hi! Crafters!

Sorry the last blog was the 15th. I had set the blog up ahead of time; so, that is why there was blogs.

Hopefully, it will not be too long before I can start again. Why?

It started Monday, January 9th my mother-in-law had a major stroke. She passed away Sunday, January 15th. Burial will be Saturday.  Between all this my oldest son and his wife had our first grandchild early. Jacob was 38 weeks 6 lbs. and 2 oz. also that day my mom last sister died and my cousin's daughter had a baby girl.

Furthermore, after my husband Kevin visited his mom from the hospital and going to the house to get somethings that was need for his mom he was in a car accident. Thank goodness he and the other driver did not get hurt but the car is not. As he says the car has had its death. Unfortunately, even if we had the replacement plan like what is offered with some insurance companies that would not work because they stopped making that car. You can even find them at places like Carmax. They are a good car in our opinion, I have one that is a 2004. Love it!!

So, we all are stressed to the max. Scott started Grad school last week and he doesn't drive. We are still working on getting that situation taken care of. Financial aid doesn't give enough for car insurance and he has to pay for health insurance each semester. beside food and tuition.

My oldest son call yesterday Jacob is back in hospital with Jaundice common thing that happens with early babies. He is very upset.

All this is part of life one has to deal with.

After the good, bad, and ugly, I when to doctor Monday, January 16th and blood work and everything was excellent and tomorrow is my 57th birthday!!

Share your ideas on this or anything here on the blog either here or e-mail me at sandi_tipple@yahoo.com.  I look forward to hearing from you!

Suggestions for a Memorial on the Anniversary of a Loved One's Death

Since my parents and now my father-in-laws death; I have been thinking how to celebrate the Memorial on the anniversary of their death.

Below are a few suggestions.

With family and friends gathered together, a memorial service provides the perfect opportunity to share memories of your loved one's life. At some memorial services, guests may wish to share personal stories and memories in a warm group conversation. A memory book, in which each guest writes their own note to the deceased or a special memory, helps collect highlights from the person's life. Writing a note to the loved one, tying it to a balloon, and letting it go can be a sweet way to send them a message, especially at a memorial service with children.

Family and friends at the memorial service may find that reading something helps them express their feelings. Reading a personally written letter or note can help release feelings and thoughts about the loved one, as well as their passing. Reading's don't have to be written personally: often finding a biblical scripture, prayer, or poem is just as effective at conveying a message of love and loss. For a unique take, attendees can look for a children's book that expresses how they feel.

Music is a way to bring people together and express emotion, two things that play a pivotal role in memorial services. Attendees can listen to recorded songs on CDs that were favorites of the deceased or are fitting tributes. Musicians or those who feel compelled to make the ceremony more personal can even perform their own music. An interactive group may choose to sing together.

 

Share your ideas on this or anything here on the blog either here or e-mail me at stipple@verizon.net.  I look forward to hearing from you!